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Monday, April 26, 2010

Lots of Blessings!

This weekend, we had the genuine pleasure of spending time with our big family.  Dear Husband's older kids, along with their spouses and kids, all gathered for food and fun!



I would have to say that we must be one of those rare families that can still, in spite of divorce, get together and enjoy each other's company.  Most of the credit, I believe, must go to the former Mrs. H.  I'm certain I must not be the easiest person to be around... yet, she choses to get together with all of us, and does so with grace and humility.  In fact, Mrs. H even helped to celebrate Miss B.'s 8th birthday!  How many ex-wives do you know who would buy their ex-husband's daughter a birthday gift?  So when I say I'm blessed, I do mean it!  She is Christ, in action.

The weekend was a crazy time of swimming, eating, and lots of laughing.  Thanks, family!

This is our son-in-law, J., with ever so cute, Mr. I.

 D-Man

 Mr. A.

 T-Man


Mrs. F. with Sweetie Pie, A.
 Mr. I.

 Miss B.


T-Steak and Mr. P

Grandpa and Mr. A.
 Miss G.


All of the kids....!  Wow, what a bunch!

Monday, April 19, 2010

What? No Unicorns?

Eight year old Mr. B made the horrifying discovery this week:  There are no unicorns.  He desperately wanted one when he turned 14.  Not only are there no unicorns, but Superman isn't real.  We can't go see the dinosaurs at the petting zoo.  Movies are fake.  Donning a cape won't allow you to fly.  We can't drive across town to Addis Ababa, either.  Wow.  His exact words were, "Ah, come on, Mom!  Gosh... oh my goodness.  Darn it."  He has had lots of little disappointments lately.

So many things we take for granted are simply not to be assumed with internationally adopted children.  These sweet kids have had such limited life experience, that they can not distinguish between real and make-believe.  This is, of course, something we need to keep in mind when we choose movies, books, and stories... and when we crack jokes.   Some things just don't translate.

For poor B., life has been full of so many harsh realities that I wish I could protect him from learning too much too quickly.  I wish I could allow him to bask in the naivety of a toddler... just so he could regain some of the carefree innocence of a young child.  Guess that's just not his reality--- or mine.  Sorry, sweet B.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Happy 8th Birthday, Miss B!


Miss B. turned a big 8 years old on April 13!  We celebrated with a delicious Cinderella birthday cake and lots of yummy ice cream!  B.'s favorite gift this year was a pair of roller skates.  It's a good thing we also purchased a complete set of body armor for her, as she spent more time sprawled out on the cement than anywhere else!

Happy Birthday, Sweetie!  We love you dearly!

Ethiopian Church

In the Phoenix area, we are blessed to be able to visit an Ethiopian church service.  Pastor Surafel leads an enthusiastic, joy-filled worship service that meets at Central United Methodist Church at 1875 N. Central Avenue in downtown Phoenix.

The service was quite wonderful:  the music had people swaying and clapping to the rhythmic Ethiopian beats; the people were very warm and completely welcoming.  The kids even got to witness a baby dedication service.  Although the kids did get a little wiggly towards the end of an over 2 hour service--- completely in Amharic-- they did seem to relish being around some other Ethiopians and being able to hear their own language again.

Pastor Surafel also heads up a program called Hope for the Hopeless.  This is a wonderful opportunity to minister to orphans in Ethiopia; I encourage you to visit the site:

http://www.hope4hopeless.org/home

Part of what made the morning memorable for the kids was being able to wear their traditional Ethiopian garb.  They really enjoyed wearing the clothes which were a gift from The Thomas Center in Addis Ababa.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Four Month Update




This weekend is the four month mark for Benjamin, Grace, and Asher.  Each month holds significant changes and adjustments for each of the kids.  I am very pleased with just how well they have each adapted to a new environment.

New and Positive Changes:

1.  Soccer:  The kids truly enjoy playing soccer!  They come alive on the field:  running with speed, agility, and absolute joy.  And they are getting faster!  I think a couple of months of good nutrition has really improved their ability to play an endurance sport.  Not only is soccer a good physical outlet for the kids, but it also helps to channel their very independent natures.  Learning to work as a team is a good lesson for this crew.

2.  Swimming:  The kids are also taking swimming lessons twice a week.  Because we live in Arizona, an area abounding with backyard swimming pools, we felt it vital to get a head start on teaching the wild ones to swim.  The kids are so funny to watch in the water!  The jump right in, trying their absolute hardest to kick and paddle.  Because they are so enthusiastic... plus the fact that they simply can't sit still or listen for too long... I have to be in the pool with them.  They need the constant chime of, "Sit on the step.  Listen to the teacher.  Stop talking."  I am thankful they are not fearful of the water, but a little healthy respect would be nice.  Swimming also has a positive benefit in that it stimulates their appetites.  This is a good thing, as I think they could all just take or leave food.

3.  School:  The kids are making slow but steady progress in school.  We still review numbers (1-100), colors, months, days, ABCs, etc. on a daily basis.   As I mentioned in a prior post, I have found the Kumon workbooks to be a very appropriate choice for all of the kids.  Thus far, they have moved up to completing the workbooks for the 4-5-6 age group.  I anticipate doing each Kumon workbook, in order, until the entire set is completed.  Only then do I imagine we will have enough of a foundation to move into Pre-K or K materials.  They have also enjoyed and benefited from the Critical Thinking workbooks.  They have finished "Book 1:  Visual Perceptual Skill Building" and "Thinker Doodles" (K-1).  The kids really enjoyed both of these books, and because they required very little English to explain, they just worked.  The only other thing I have added to our routine (see prior post), is to have the kids listen to math music.  They seem to enjoy it, and actually end up learning something!
















Somethings Have Not Changed Very Much...

1.  Non-stop talking at inappropriate times.  The kids talk during devotions, church, movies, school, prayer, etc.  Discipline has not made much of a difference.

2.  Bedtime chatter continues in the boys' room.  I can not get the boys to be quiet earlier than about 10 p.m.  I think they are chronically tired, sleeping in only rarely.  And yes, we do have a regular bedtime routine.) Reducing the level of household activity does not seem to help with an earlier bed time either.  I think it's just going to take a lot more time for them to really, really settle down.  Thankfully, Grace and Blanca don't chatter endlessly.  They talk for a few minutes, and go right to sleep.

3.  Sibling fighting continues.  These kids lie to each other and about each other.

4.  Bedwetting continues for Asher.  He now used Pull-Ups every night.  I understand night time bedwetting is pretty common for boys.  Yet, the on-purpose peeing on the downstair carpet is not humorous.  Asher also likes to hide his wet underpants in his bedroom.  Very stinky.  A friend of mine mentioned that she numbered her child's underwear, giving a pair of undies to the child only if he returned the previous pair.  Guess that would help to keep track of them.

5.  Food remains a sticky point.  I have tried to make a little less Ethiopian food, as per my husband's request.  The kids will simply not eat if they hate the food.  And they are getting fussier; items that they used to eat are no longer acceptable.  Even eliminating the promise of a delicious popsicle after dinner does not encourage them to eat.   Makes dinner time rather stressful, as the acceptable food list seems to be getting shorter.  Maybe it's just my patience with the whole thing that is getting shorter!?

6.  Manners remain non-existent.  We are making some progress with using utensils, thanks to the super-hero cutlery.

7.  Lying and cheating are still fairly major issues; stealing has dwindled.  They still have no consideration of taking care of other people's property.

8.  Grieving still happens in short, intense spurts.  Crying and sobbing happens only once every few weeks, and usually occurs at the end of the day.  All the events lately have been when they think about Grace's half-brother in Ethiopia.  They miss him dearly.

9.  Not much language progress in the last month.  The kids understand most of what we say, but talk in broken English.  By themselves, they speak Amharic... especially if they are trying to get away with something.


New Issues and Challenges


1.  Food hoarding/stealing:  Asher likes to stash oranges and bottles of Gatorade in various places throughout the house.  He has open access to fruit; Gatorade is an after-soccer-only beverage.  I always allow the kids to have food; I realize they need to feel safe... and food is a major part of establishing that safe feeling.  Nonetheless, I have found bottles of swiped Gatorade hidden by the toilet; I have found oranges in his drawers, in his pants, behind furniture, under beds, etc.  Poor guy.  Imagine what must be in that little brain to feel the need to steal and hide food.

2.  Disobedience with a smile:  All of the kids, but especially the two oldest, enjoy lying to see what they can get away with.  I can correct Grace, for example, and she will apologize... and then turn around and continue what ever she was doing... and smile.  She knows she's going to get in trouble, but it doesn't seem to stop her.  Glen and I are very consistent with discipline, so it does seem a bit odd to me that they are trying harder than ever to do things they know they are going to get busted for.  Guess that's just the nature of fallen mankind... we want to obey only when it fits our schedule and our desires.  Of course, these kids also want to test us to see if we'll still nurture and love them even when they are "bad."  So glad to be an experienced mommy!

3.  School:  The biggest challenge to the day is trying to get the kids to focus on one task and complete it.  Benjamin, in particular, is very slow in his school work.  He takes an estimated 45 minutes longer to complete school compared to his other sibs.  He can't sit still, or he gets distracted, or he wants to rush through his work (and then makes tons of mistakes).  He also wants to blame everyone around him when he fails at something.  He will be our greatest challenge in school.  The others seem to want to learn; he doesn't.  He may be our musical genius....

All in all, the Halvorson household is doing exceptionally well.  I feel incredibly blessed to have all of these little ones to teach and to nurture.  I realized this was not going to be easy--- adding three more to the mix.  Yet, truth be known, it has been easier than I had anticipated.  That's pretty amazing!


    


Saturday, April 10, 2010

Goals Galore


In the second game of the soccer season, the "Golden Stars" ran away with the victory!

B. scored 2 goals!  A. scored 1 goal!  Miss B. scored 1 goal! We had quite the excited household today!

It is so sweet to see all of the kids just playing and having fun... seemingly without a care in the world. I think I've just become a soccer fan!

D-Man Wins Two Taekwondo Medals!


D-Man entered his first Taekwondo tournament on Friday.  He took first place in the Weapons Competition; he took second place in the Forms Competition!

Congratulations, D-Man!  We are so proud of your efforts and your incredible focus... not to mention your ridiculous flexibility and strength!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

First Day in the Pool


One of the many benefits of home schooling is a flexible schedule.  The kids were able to start swimming lessons early, in hopes of getting a few skills under their belts before summer begins.

Thankfully, Miss B. is a terrific little swimmer.  At least I don't have to worry that she's going to go under at any moment....  The Three Musketeers, on the other hand, are quite daring and bold.  They are not hesitant at all to jump in the water and attempt to stay afloat.  Ah... here in lies the danger!  They all claimed to know how to swim because they have been in the bath tub.  Sigh.

Looks like we'll be in a series of lessons this summer.  I am so grateful that the kids absolutely loved the water.  Now, if we could just develop a "healthy fear" of the water... then I might feel a little more comfortable.
Miss G. was like a little frog in the water.  She couldn't quite get the hang of kicking with straight legs.  She also froze, even with heated water.  The girl simply has no body fat to keep her warm!
B. was the most fearful of the group.  He did kinda freak out at the mere thought of the "deep end."
Miss T. helped as much as the teacher.  Thanks, T.!
Which was better?  The pool, or the snacks after swimming?  B. is trying to hide a mouth full of crackers....
Miss B. had a fantastic time in her swimming refresher course.  She's thinking about joining swim team this summer.  She's such a little mermaid!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Tears of a Grieving Child

Both of the little boys were in tears tonight.  They had brought out photos of their deceased mother, their beloved father, and photos of Miss G.'s half-brother.

You could see the wheels of their minds turning:  Why am I here?  Why is G.'s brother not here?  How does all of this make sense?

All I could do was hold them... rock them... and tell them that I didn't know why Jesus allows some things, and not others.  I told them as best I could that Jesus decides all things that happen in our lives and that America was where He wanted them to be right now.  I also reassured them that heaven is a beautiful place where all of God's family will be... they won't be scattered all over the world.  Jesus will make all things right... someday.  I encouraged them to cry, and to give their tears and sadness to Jesus.

We cried together, sang a few songs, and prayed again.  Oh, Lord!  What pain these little hearts have endured!

For all of the grieving mothers, fathers, and children--- those in families and those "left behind"-- remember that the Lord never allows pain without purpose.  He hears your cries and your pleas for mercy and comfort.   He will make all things right again... in His perfect time.


Psalm 56:8 (New Living Translation)
 8 You keep track of all my sorrowsYou have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Happy Easter!

It's always such a joy to introduce family traditions to new members of the family.  Miss B. got to enjoy her second Easter with us; the new kids enjoyed their first.
The boys celebrated finding the most eggs...
...the girls simply enjoyed wearing a new, pretty dress!
D-Man surprised us all with his desire to wear a tie...
... A. never fails to dazzle us with an infectious smile!
G. and B. evaluate their finds....
Easter is an awesome holiday, as Miss B.can attest to.
Even the big guy gave us a half a smile.
The only disappointment of the day was finding that the cute bunny wrapped in gold foil...
... was filled with DISGUSTING chocolate!  Yuck!

Have a blessed Easter, everyone!

Friday, April 2, 2010

My Favorite Ethiopian Recipes

Doro Wot
Serves 10
Allow 4 hours to prepare
5-8 lbs. chicken (drumsticks and thighs, skinned)
8 Large onions
5 tsp minced garlic (approximately 10-12 peeled cloves or 2 1/2 tsp. garlic powder)
2 cups Olive Oil (use a fruity, good quality olive oil, not canola oil)
2 tsp grated ginger root (or 1/2 tsp. dried ginger*)
½ cup Berbere* (makes it “medium” spicy; add more or less)
¼ cup Paprika*
2 tsp. Korerima*
2 tsp. Wot Kimem*
2 tsp. salt (I have also used 1-2 tsp.“Better than Bouillon” Chicken Paste)
1-2 cups water (start by adding one, then increase as sauce becomes too thick)
One hard boiled egg per person
*purchase through Ethiopianspices.com or another online Ethiopian store, as these spices taste different than what you can purchase at a US grocery store)
Clean and remove skin from chicken.
EITHER finely chop onions and garlic by hand OR chop onions in quarters and place onion, whole (peeled) garlic cloves, a 1.5 square inch hunk of fresh ginger root with one cup olive oil in a food processor (or chop-mode of blender) and pulverize.
In large, heavy pot, over medium high heat:  add one cup olive oil and onion, garlic, ginger mixture.  Saute until browned.
Add Berbere; stir frequently for 15 minutes.
Add paprika, korerima, wot kimen, salt (or chicken paste), 1 cup water, and chicken.  Stir well; reduce heat and simmer for at least two hours.  Cover.  Continue to very gently stir doro wat, as chicken becomes so tender it falls off bones.  Add more water as necessary to prevent sticking.  Sauce should be medium thick.
Prepare hard boiled eggs; float peeled eggs on top of dish. 
Enjoy with fresh injera, brown rice, or crusty French bread.
When reheating Doro Wat, add water and/or additional olive oil to return stew to medium-thick consistency.

Sega Wot
Serves 8-10
Allow 4 hours to prepare

3 pounds stew meat or stir-fry meat
5 large onions
5 tsp minced garlic (approximately 10-12 peeled cloves or 2 1/2 tsp. garlic powder)
2 cups Olive Oil (use a fruity, good quality olive oil, not canola oil)
2 tsp grated ginger root (or 1/2 tsp. dried ginger*)
¼ cup Berbere
2 tsp. Wot Kimem*
2 tsp. salt (I have also used 1-2 tsp. “Better than Bouillon” Beef Paste)
1-2 cups water (start by adding one, then increase as sauce becomes too thick)
(*purchase through Ethiopianspices.com or another online Ethiopian store, as these spices taste different than what you can purchase at a US grocery store)
EITHER finely chop onions and garlic by hand OR chop onions in quarters and place onion, whole (peeled) garlic cloves, a 1.5 square inch hunk of fresh ginger root with one cup olive oil in a food processor (or chop-mode of blender) and pulverize.
In large, heavy pot, over medium high heat:  add one cup olive oil and onion, garlic, ginger mixture.  Saute until browned.
Add berbere; stir frequently for 15 minutes.
Add wot kimem, salt (or beef paste), and one cup water.  Stir well.  Cover, reduce heat.
Simmer for 2 1/2 to 3 hours, or until stew meat is fork-tender.  Add one cup water or more as needed to prevent sticking and to leave sauce a medium thick consistency.
Serve with fresh injera, brown rice, or crusty French bread.
When reheating Sega Wot, add water and/or olive oil to get stew back to medium-thick consistency.



Alicha Sega Wot
Serves 8-10
Allow 4 hours to prepare

3 pounds stew meat or stir-fry meat
5 large onions
5 tsp minced garlic (approximately 10-12 peeled cloves or 2 1/2 tsp. garlic powder)
2 cups Olive Oil (use a fruity, good quality olive oil, not canola oil)
2 tsp grated ginger root (or 1/2 tsp. dried ginger*)
2 tsp. Turmeric*
2 tsp. Alicha Kimem
2 tsp. salt (I have also used 1-2 tsp. “Better than Bouillon” Beef Paste)
1-2 cups water (start by adding one, then increase as sauce becomes too thick)

(*purchase through Ethiopianspices.com or another online Ethiopian store, as these spices taste different than what you can purchase at a US grocery store)
EITHER finely chop onions and garlic by hand OR chop onions in quarters and place onion, whole (peeled) garlic cloves, a 1.5 square inch hunk of fresh ginger root with one cup olive oil in a food processor (or chop-mode of blender) and pulverize.
In large, heavy pot, over medium high heat:  add one cup olive oil and onion, garlic, ginger mixture.  Saute until browned.
Add tumeric; stir frequently for 15 minutes.
Add alicha kimem, salt (or beef paste), and one cup water.  Stir well.  Cover, reduce heat.
Simmer for 2 1/2 to 3 hours, or until stew meat is fork-tender.  Add one cup water or more as needed to prevent sticking and to leave sauce a medium thick consistency.
Serve with fresh injera, brown rice, or crusty French bread.
When reheating Alicha Sega Wot, add water and/or olive oil to get stew back to medium-thick consistency.



Yeatakilt Wet (Carrot,Cabbage and Potatoes)
Serves 8-10
Allow 1 hour prep time

½ cup Olive Oil, plus extra (good quality, fruity)
2 large onions, sliced or chopped
4-5 large potatoes, peeled and cut into 8 pieces
2 small tomatoes, chopped
6 large carrots, peeled and cut into 2 inch pieces
1 medium green cabbage, washed and sliced into 3inch pieces
2 T grated fresh ginger (or 2½ tsp ginger powder)
2 T minced fresh garlic (or 2½ tsp garlic powder)
1 T Turmeric
1 tsp Cardamom
Salt
Water

Heat ½ cup olive oil in large, non-stick heavy pan.  Add onions and potatoes.  Cook for 5 minutes over medium high heat.  Add tomato and cook for 1 minute.  Add carrots and sliced cabbage; mix well.  Add water and/or a bit of olive oil to pan to prevent sticking.  Cover and continue to stir frequently for about 25 minutes.  Add garlic, ginger, turmeric, cardamom, and salt to taste.  Potatoes should be tender; check before serving.

Food Issues: Too Much, Too Little

The one question I am asked time after time after time is "How can I get my adopted son or daughter to eat (more or less)?"  At first glance, it's a simple question; yet, the answer is not so simple... and can be very frustrating.

First, not all adoptive kids have "fussy food syndrome."  My daughter from Guatemala did not have any trouble adjusting to an American cuisine.  For her, a hamburger was a special treat, not a loathsome item on a plate!  With her, we had more concerns about the sheer quantity of food she wanted to eat.  Blanca would overindulge to the point of vomiting.  Although this extreme overeating quickly stopped, the overeating continues to this day.

In regards to overeating, I had to really let go of my preconceived notions of appropriate behavior.  My main concern with Miss B. was to make sure she felt safe and protected.  What that meant to her, a once starving child, was to allow her to eat whenever she felt the need.  I had fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, kid-sized protein bars available to her at all times--- something she could just reach and grab whenever she felt hungry.  If she asked for more, I would offer her a choice of healthy items (of two items--- more than that is just too frustrating).  When she wanted food right before a meal, I did still give her food--- albeit a smaller portion.

With Miss B., having her help in food preparation or food serving helped her.  She learned that her big father needed more food; she also learned to serve others.  She still enjoys helping me in the kitchen; she also consistently serves the entire family beverages at dinner time.

I did not attempt to reduce my daughter's food intake until she was home for one year.  At that point, she was conversant in English; she also felt loved and safe.  Only then did I restrict her constant demand for snacks.  The main question I asked her was, "Are you really hungry?"  I educated her about how to recognize true, physical hunger.  At first, when I asked her if she was hungry, the answer was always "yes."  But over time, the answer was, "not really," or "just a little."  Or perhaps she'd recognize she was only thirsty.  She learned through her own experience to recognize true hunger versus spiritual emptiness.

Miss B.'s weigh and height are still out of proportion.  She has been home for two years now.  Yet, she has actually come down a clothing size over the past year, and she has fewer and fewer episodes of overeating.  As an American woman who has had past struggles with under and overeating, I can say this was a real challenge to simply do what was best for this child--- not what I felt was right or wrong.  Eating is not a black and white issue to many adoptive kids.  You have to allow for the gray areas, and work through the tough times.

On the flip-side, our new Ethiopian children.

First, if you travelled to Ethiopia:  remember how your stomach felt!  I don't think I've talked to anyone who didn't experience some G.I. distress!  The food was just so completely unique to our palates; even if your mouth said it was tasty, your gut didn't necessarily agree!

All you need to do is put yourself in your child's place.  That ought to make you feel a whole lot more compassion regarding food.

If you were all of a sudden picked up from your comfortable American life and plopped down in the middle of Ethiopia, you'd be fussing about food, too!  And I would also bet that you would be extremely grateful to anyone who made a little effort to make something "American."

In our household, we've had lots of children.  If I think way back to when I was first married, one of the ways I tried to make my new step children feel comfortable with me was to make them food they enjoyed.  Regardless of how exhausting it was--- when I had babies crawling all over the floor --- I ALWAYS made it a point to make at least one thing that I knew the older kids would love.  Over the course of years, it went from cookies and macaroni and cheese, to vegetarian menus and baked rigatoni.  Nonetheless, I believe the older kids felt more welcomed and accepted when I made a significant effort to cater to their own particular likes.  Set your sights on the desired long term outcome.  You can still made wholesome food that also fills a spiritual need.

That being said, I would encourage you to see your adopted-from-another-culture kids in a completely different light.  This is not your typical American fussy eater.  If you simply say "Eat it or go without," they WILL choose to go without.  I've seen it in action.  American food is simply so repulsive to their senses that they will simply not eat... period.  Remember, you job is to help them feel loved and safe.  You can work on good food habits later.

When G., A., and B. first came home, all they wanted was fruit.  Mandarin "Cuties" and green bananas were about the only foods these kids wanted.  I went to the store every day for 2 weeks; I simply could not keep enough fruit in the house.  Every time they wanted more fruit, I allowed them to enjoy it.

The fruit pica stage lasted only two weeks.  (And by the way, they never got the runs from too much fruit... I think their little bodies simply needed it.)  They finally realized that fruit wasn't just a temporarily available item.

Initially (months 1 and 2), the kids would only eat the following:

Mandarin "Cuties"
Green bananas
Brown rice
Garbanzo beans
Barley
Hard boiled eggs
Rolls with honey or berbere (mix olive oil, spoon of berbere, and a bit of water)
Pancakes
Waffles
Plain pasta
Popcorn or Kettle Corn
Almonds
Pineapple
Mango
Popsicles
... and of course, injera with berbere or any other Ethiopian dish

At three months, we could add:

Milk (two kids only)
Apple Juice
Orange Juice
Red Grapes
Apples
Fruited yogurt (two kids only)
Chicken soup with rice or barley
Roasted chicken with salt and pepper
Spaghetti with very, very little sauce
Crackers
Organic toaster pastries
Organic Z Bars for Kids or Clif Bars
Hamburger (two kids only)
Pasta with small amount of chicken or meat (no cheese)
Boiled potatoes (small red or white)
Tomato
Cabbage
Roast Beef (put in oven bag with olive oil and spices)
Salad
Donuts
Pita Bread (sometimes)
Flour tortillas (with berbere mixture)

Every weekend, I make a huge vat or two of some sort of Ethiopian food.  (I will post recipes soon.) That way, for at least the next four days, the kids always have a "fall back."  I do require the kids to try whatever the rest of the family is eating--- even if it's just one bite.

We also use popsicles or fruit as an incentive to eat dinner.

I do buy injera every week.  Now, only one child consistently requests injera.

The only vitamin we can get any of the kids to eat is Nordic Naturals Nordic Berries.  We tried MANY different supplements--- this was the only one that passed!

Bottom line with food issues:  this too, shall pass!  Just remember that bonding and attachment are more critical now than anything else can do right now.  Just say "no" to the power struggles associated with food.  Working on proper nutrition and good eating habits are something that you can work on gradually and over time.  Be encouraged!

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Great Times with Family

We've just had a wonderful visit with cousins!  My sister remarked how amazing it was that all of the kids got along so well.  It was quite a sweet sight:  kids just meeting for the first time--- playing and laughing and rough-housing like they've known each other forever.  Wouldn't it be remarkable if adults could accept each other so readily?